“Agwile nchito molimbikila. Agwile ndi manja ake nchito yabwino, kuti akhale ndi kanthu kena kopatsa munthu wosowa.”—AEFESO 4:28.

Mlengi wathu amafuna tiziona kuti kugwila nchito ni cinthu cabwino. Cifukwa ciani? Munthu amene amagwila nchito molimbika amakhala wokondwela, cifukwa amakwanitsa kudzisamalila komanso kusamalila banja lake. Angakwanitsenso ngakhale kuthandiza wina amene ni wosoŵa. Nawonso abwana ake amam’konda. Conco ngati munthu amaseŵenza mwakhama si kwenikweni kucotsedwa nchito. Mpake kuti Malemba amafotokoza zotulukapo zabwino za kugwila nchito mwakhama kuti ni “mphatso yocokela kwa Mulungu.”—Mlaliki 3:13.

“Tikukhulupilila kuti tili ndi cikumbumtima coona, popeza tikufuna kucita zinthu zonse moona mtima.”—AHEBERI 13:18.

Tikakhala oona mtima, timadzisungila ulemu. Timakhala na mtendele wa maganizo, ndiponso timagona tulo twabwino. Kuwonjezela apo, anthu ena amatikhulupilila na kutilemekeza. Koma anthu osaona mtima amadzimana zinthu zabwino zimenezi. Cina, cikumbumtima cawo cingamawavutitse, ndipo angamakhale mwamantha poopa kuti tsiku lina adzagwidwa cifukwa ca kusakhulupilika kwawo.

“Moyo wanu ukhale wosakonda ndalama, koma mukhale okhutila ndi zimene muli nazo pa nthawiyo.”—AHEBERI 13:5.

Timafunika ndalama zogulila cakudya na zinthu zina zofunikila. Komabe, “kukonda ndalama” n’koopsa. Kungapangitse munthu kuthela nthawi yoculuka na mphamvu zake posakila ndalama. Zimenezi zingabweletse mavuto m’cikwati cake, zingamulande nthawi yoceza na ana ake, ndipo zingawononge ngakhale thanzi lake. (1 Timoteyo 6:9, 10) Kuwonjezela apo, munthu amene amakonda ndalama angakhale pa mayeselo ocita zinthu mosakhulupilika. Munthu wina wanzelu analemba kuti: “Munthu wocita zinthu mokhulupilika adzapeza madalitso ambili, koma woyesetsa kuti apeze cuma mofulumila, sadzapitiliza kukhala wosalakwa.”—Miyambo 28:20.

“Usunge nzelu zopindulitsa ndiponso kuganiza bwino.”—MIYAMBO 3:21.

Maphunzilo abwino angatithandize kukhala anthu odalilika komanso kukhala makolo abwino. Koma maphunzilo abwino akuthupi paokha sangatipatse citetezo cokhalitsa kapena cimwemwe. Kuti zinthu zizitiyendela bwino pa zilizonse zimene timacita, tiyenela kulandila maphunzilo ocokela kwa Mulungu. Pokamba za munthu amene amamvela Mulungu, Malemba amati: “Zocita zake zonse zidzamuyendela bwino.”—Salimo 1:1-3.